A creative problem-solving process

An opportunity to create workable agreements

A transformative process for individuals to help create a happier healthier life

Redefines relationships and encourages win-win vs. win-loose

A process that uncovers "all the things" that you might not have known you'd have to think about in the midst of a conflict. 

Creation of plans surrounding each item in a patient manner 

Cost effective - not using lawyers to create agreements can save lots of money

Fast & Flexible - Getting into court to resolve disputes can take time and require tight schedule constraints

Can be a preventative process addressing conflict before it arises so there is a concrete plan in place to alleviate stress when life happens

No-pressure, non-binding agreements

An informal process

Confidential

Surrounded by the values of Respect, Responsibility and Relationships

A voluntary process for all parties

An improvement over what already exists

Parties are in charge of the product, while the mediator is in charge of the process

Also can be referred to as ADR (Alternative Dispute Resolution)

Mediation (me-di-a-tion) is not meditation (med-i-ta-tion)...Sorry, I can't help you with proper breathing techniques but that is important to keeping calm

Mediation is not arbritration. No one person decides the outcome for you 

Mediation is not one attorney for 2 people. In fact, there is oftentimes no attorney involved in the process

Not to decide fault or blame

Not to decide punishment and consequences

Not for dropping of charges or court orders

Not an "if....then" situation

Not to decide contingincies 

Not to decide "winner vs. loser" 

Not a place to seek legal advise 

Not a mandated process